

The Pan-Dorset Safeguarding Children Partnership conference took place on the 18th October 2023. The title of this conference was: Hopefulness for working with adolescent young people and included the following areas of focus on young people’s experience and impact on them around:
- Mental health
- Gender identity
- Knife crime
- Domestic abuse
Schedule of Events
Please click here to view the conference videos
From 09.15 – Arrival, registration, and refreshments
10.00 Welcome & Introduction – James Vaughan, Independent Chair for the Pan-Dorset Safeguarding Children Partnership
10.15 Sharing a family’s story of coercive control and domestic homicide – Ryan Hart, CoCoAwareness
11.15 Refreshment Break and opportunity to network
11.35 Presentations from statutory partners:
- Dorset Council’s Children’s Services
- Bournemouth Christchurch and Poole Council Children’s Services
- Dorset Police
- NHS Dorset
12.45 Lunch
13.45 Introduction to the afternoon – James Vaughan, Independent Chair for the Pan-Dorset Safeguarding Children Partnership
13.50 Mental health and wellbeing of young people: Practical applications of a mentalising approach – Ted Daszkiewicz, Research in Practice Associate
14.50 Children and Young People on Gender Identity, supported by Dawn Henderson, Team Manager Dorset Council Children’s Services
15.50 Closing remarks – James Vaughan, Independent Chair for the Pan-Dorset Safeguarding Children Partnership
We have the venue until 4.30pm and so you are welcome to use the remaining time to network and visit our supporting organisations in the foyer.
Ryan Hart
Ryan Hart shares his family’s story of coercive control and domestic homicide. So far, through his work he has trained over 10,000 professionals in identifying, understanding, and ending domestic abuse.
Ryan is a White Ribbon Ambassador and Refuge Champion speaking out against male violence towards women and children. He has also worked with the charity Level Up to produce and advocate for the acceptance of domestic homicide reporting guidelines and has received several awards for his work – including the Lincolnshire Police Outstanding Contribution to Public Service 2018/2019, BBC Inspirations 2020 award and the Big Issue’s Top 100 Changemakers of 2020.

Ted Daszkiewicz
Ted Daszkiewicz has a psychology background with over 25 years direct work experience with children and families in the statutory, education and voluntary sectors. This has included working in drug rehabilitation, behaviour support, youth justice and trauma related therapeutic interventions. Other positions have included an associate University Lecturer as well as providing consultancy services supporting UK government depts in creating several national children’s workforce development programmes.
Mentalisation refers to the ability to reflect upon, and to understand one’s state of mind; to have insight into what one is feeling, and why. It helps to make sense of our thoughts, beliefs, wishes and feelings and to link these to our actions and behaviours. At times when an individual’s mental wellbeing is under stress this ability can be compromised.
Learning Outcomes
- Increase awareness of a mentalising approach and its application.
- How incorporating mentalisation based working can support practitioners in their relationships with young people & families.
- Key skills and competencies underpinning a mentalising approach.

Conference Videos
Welcome & Introduction – James Vaughan, Independent Chair for the PDSCP https://youtu.be/SBJfi3Mif-o
Sharing a family’s story of coercive control and domestic homicide – Ryan Hart, CocoAwareness https://youtu.be/NhxhW4iD79I
Presentations from statutory partners:
Dorset Council Children’s Services on the Pathfinder Programme – Theresa Leavy, Executive Director – People, Children https://youtu.be/a7h_2cxTOow
Bournemouth, Christchurch & Poole Children’s Services on the Complex Safeguarding Team – Nigel Burton, Service Manager and Amie Haysom, Team Manager for Complex Safeguarding https://youtu.be/PEnCpje2i4U
NHS Dorset To Walk a Mile in a Young Person’s Shoes – Simon Hester, Head of Safeguarding https://youtu.be/ZdhwFIvVErc
Mental health and wellbeing of young people: Practical applications of a mentalising approach – Ted Daszkiewicz, Research in Practice Associate https://youtu.be/WBs1YNljej8
Broken Rainbow 2023 – https://youtu.be/lDp0VlyUicY
Chesil Youth Pride 2023 – https://youtu.be/3aAh5zkGHnA
Summary of the day – https://youtu.be/31ZQQGPaPdY
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